Wednesday, October 1, 2008

The Cancer Club

This thought has been rumbling in my head for the last few weeks and I'm not sure if I can adequately explain what I mean. I have been with my friend Melody to the Cancer Treatment Center of America in Zion, IL twice in the last 6 weeks or so. The patients share an instant bond with each other the moment that they meet. They have similar thoughts and concerns. They ask the same questions. It's interesting that the conversations become quite personal with strangers that have just met. The camaraderie of facing such a struggle has made them 'instant friends.' I guess being close friends to the cancer patient makes us junior members to this club that no one wants to join.

Melody and I met a new friend of this club Sunday night. She is a young wife and mother of 3 and fighting lymphoma. She is so sweet and we really enjoyed visiting with her. She got bad news today and will be facing major decisions and treatments in the next few weeks.

I have a little friend named Brendon who is 6 years old. He has been fighting brain cancer for the past couple of years. I heard today that he isn't doing well and has been admitted to the hospital.

Can you please pray for my friends? My heart has been very heavy today.

2 comments:

SentimentsbyDenise said...

I'm a member of this club, too - unfortunately.
So glad you shared about your new friends. I will certainly pray - thank you for the opportunity.

tricia said...

So many are a member of this club. I know all three of your examples, and Denise too. What precious gifts we have and how often we forget to cherish them. Thank you for reminding me to love those around me. You never know what is going on behind that smile.